littlesansabird
  • Me half the time: I just want to cuddle up with you and watch cute movies and look into your eyes and tell you I love you and kiss you lots and then fall asleep in your arms.
  • Me half of the time: I just want to rip off your clothes and get pushed against the wall with my arms pinned up and make out and push you onto your bed and we can fuck the shit out of each other, ok.

Opinion about FUBU by steven

Ehhh, I don’t know, but these kind of relationships are really hard to maintain. To me the worst thing you could do is have a sex/kissing/touching only relationship with no attachments if you have no intentions of dating that person. In the beginning it will seem like the perfect situation. Especially if you’ve just gotten out of a relationship and you feel like you are not ready for another, or if you just have a fear of being in a committed relationship, it seems so easy. Just sleep with someone with no attachments, make out, touch each other. Trust that everything will going along smoothly at first. This other person knows that it is just sex, so at first they will expect nothing from you but sex you know? It’ll feel good to be able to come and go as you please to someone else, without having to explain anything to anyone. It will all become a pattern and eventually a routine.
But what happens? you will slowly but surely start catching feelings. And soon the person that is in the sex only relationship with you begins to want more from you, and in a way you being to want more as well. Feelings are beginning to get involved. As much as you tell yourself and that other person that it is just sex, the more you begin to recognize that it isn’t true. You or that other person begin to miss each other. They don’t want you to leave, you wanna spend the night. They want to know where you are going and who you are going to see. They begin to smother you and get jealous. And little by little you begin and they begin to realize that this was a bad idea. Because suddenly, someone is saying the words ” I Love You” and now you’re more confused than what you were before. This is why a sex only/touching/kissng/ relationship never works, if it just stays there.


- for that friend!